A friendship app for adults
New friends. A place to start.
Meet one person through shared values. Start with 14 questions that give you both something to talk about.
See how it works
Question 1 of 14 · example
A free weekend, nothing you have to do. What really gives you energy back?
Your answer
A few close people, something calm and easy
Their answer
A few close people, something calm and easy
Private until you both answer
From an introduction to a conversation.
No profiles to browse and no opening line to invent. Here is what happens when you join.
Tell us what matters to you
Your values and preferences guide matching. We look for one compatible person among the available members.
Answer, then see their side
Work through 14 questions, from light to more personal. Each answer stays private until you both respond. You do not need to be online together.
Choose whether to keep talking
After the questions, you each decide. A mutual yes opens an ongoing connection with a Chat.
Room to get to know one person.
- Values before first impressions
- Matching considers what matters to you and how much it matters. Your profile photo does not decide the introduction.
- One introduction at a time
- Give one new conversation your attention. There is no Swipe-Feed or queue of profiles to manage.
- A pace you can plan around
- Share how often you expect to check in. Matches have response windows, and you can end a conversation if you want to move on.
- Photos with your permission
- Photos stay blurred during the 14 questions. Clear photos appear only after you finish and both agree to share them.
For someone you already know
One question. Two perspectives.
Try today's question with a friend, partner, or someone you would like to know better. Choose your answer and send a private link. Compare once you have both answered.
No account needed. One multiple-choice question each day.
Before you get started
Is ValuePair free?
Yes. The core app will always be free and ad-free: matching, getting to know each other, and chatting. Optional Premium features add convenience and extras. They are already marked as Premium and are currently free to use during the beta. ValuePair is for adults aged 18 and over.
Will I get a match straight away?
Once your profile is complete and you join matching, we look for someone who fits your values and preferences. As soon as a suitable person is available, you receive an introduction. Timing depends on availability, shared languages, and your settings.
Is this for friendship or dating?
Friendship is the starting point here. In your profile, you can choose friendship, dating, or both. Matching respects compatible intentions.
Do I have to answer all 14 questions at once?
No. You can answer in several visits, without waiting for each reply. Matches have response windows, so this is not an unlimited pause. The FAQ explains timing and inactive matches.
Can I keep my photo private?
Your match sees a blurred photo during the questions. A clear photo requires both of you to finish and agree to share. You can end the match at any time.
Finding your way into friendship
- Making friends online as an adult

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- Finding friends who share your values

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- Keeping an online friendship going

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Free at its core. Always ad-free.
Your next conversation starts here.
Make a little room for someone new. Start in your browser or take ValuePair with you.
Meet one new friendOpen in your browser. No download needed.
Prefer an app?
Get the Android app on Google Play. The iPhone app is available as a beta through Apple's free TestFlight app.


